Swingers Etiquette: Swinging Questions and Answers

If you are considering meeting up with other swingers or visiting a swingers club, you may be wondering how to get started. 888dates connects like minded adults looking for sexual encounters and fun with couples, singles and groups. We run lots of forums where members post details about meets and parties. One of our forums is all about swingers etiquette, where you will find all the answers to your questions , and may be even a few you had not thought of! You can always post a new question, and our more experienced members will offer you advice.

Common questions include:

• what to wear to a swinging club
• how to let guys know you want them to approach the wife
• how to move things on when you meet up with a couple

For the answers to these questions and more, visit our Swingers Etiquette page or join to get full access to the forums and members profiles.

Soft Swinging and Wife Swapping

Wife swapping is an old fashioned term for sexual activity with someone other than your partner, with their knowledge and permission, and is now known as "swinging". A surprising number of swinging couples are looking for sexual encounters with other couples or single males or females.

There are various levels of swinging, and you may be surprised to learn that penetrative sex is not the most common type of swinging. If you were to attend a swinging party or club, you would discover that other swinging activities include watching others having sex, or a couple having sex with a third person or another couple.

Having penetrative sex with someone other than your partner is known as a "full swap". A common form of swinging is "soft swap" or "soft swinging", which involves kissing, touching or having oral sex.